The author reveals her grief over the death of her father in a candid, uncensored way-a way most of us are unwilling to express. Her descriptive and colorful writings create a window into the thought process of a person struggling with loss. This is not a scientific study of how to deal with grief, but it is an opportunity to walk with Krisanne on her personal path of questioning, shock, pain, numbness, loneliness, fear, denial, and anger-and in so doing perhaps recognize oneself.

Keep a notepad and pen handy to jot down all the things one must address when a loved one dies. Know you will shed tears, so have a box of tissues nearby to help keep the ink on your list from smearing. And finally, be prepared for laughter to catch you off guard in the midst of your tears.